So, this is the very last day I can say that next year I’ll be running my first marathon, and pretend that it’s safe and sound tucked away in a distant land. As soon as the clock strikes midnight, the horrifying reality that I’ll be running the London Marathon THIS YEAR will most likely cause several ongoing anxiety attacks, and I’ll vomit all the Christmas food I’m still eating… maybe not such a bad thing on second thoughts. That is one of the reasons I’m secretly glad this is the first year of my life that I won’t be seeing in the new year (I have marathon training in the morning). I’m an introvert, and unless I have plans with family or friends, the whole new years eve extravaganza doesn’t bother me too much at all. I’m okay with missing out on wanting to die on the tube trying to reach a destination in London that will charge me a month’s rent for one drink. All in the name of charity!
I do, however, look forward to the first day of January. I love a good spring clean – house and life, and the chance to reset and refresh is always welcome. I tend to steer clear of new year’s resolutions or any form of anxiety induced future planning and bucket lists. I’ve learnt the best way to avoid daily breakdowns and weeks of procrastination is to focus my attention on no more than three things/projects at a time, and to take each day as it comes, tomorrow can wait. As can the twenty six miles I’ve got to somehow drag myself around. If anyone has Bernard’s watch, now would be a good time to confess!
Having said all that, I have made one new year’s resolution. Okay, two. I really need to cut my hair. But apart from that, 2016 will be the year I pluck up the courage to pay a visit to the doctor. I think I’ve done better than I could have possibly imagined in terms of self help, but there’s only so much you can do without a professional’s aid. I feel that a talking therapy like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) would suit me best at this moment in time, just got to stop envisioning the doctor laughing or dismissing me from the building first. If worse comes to worse, I’ll have ten cheesecakes and reruns of Downton Abbey, Once Upon a Time and Merlin awaiting my return and you won’t hear from me for three months. Not even sure who I’m kidding by thinking ten cheesecakes will last three mere months. But you get the jist, the first step is all that matters for now. If I can attempt to run a marathon, I can give this a whirl too. And sharing it in this blog means it’s in writing, I can’t wimp out.
Aside from facing my fears, I plan to spend 2016 working on a couple of dance and art projects, making tracks towards preparing for my masters degree and whatever else the year plans to throw my way! I have actually also set myself the task of reading one book a month, rather than reading a book and mourning it two months after I’ve finished. Oh yeah, and I’m running a marathon, WAHOOOOO! I’m half excited and can’t wait for the opportunity to bask in the atmosphere of the event, and half convinced that Sunday 24th April can bugger off and stay in the future where it belongs. I say that, but what’s the betting I’ll have signed up to a second marathon two minutes after completing the first… Fool of a Took.
I, like most dancers, often dream of performing either without preparation or just plain old forgetting the choreography on stage. Bit like the standing naked in front of a crowd nightmare but worse, trust me. I am currently awaiting my first nightmare in which I’m standing at the starting line only to suddenly realise I’ve done diddly squat training. In reality that side of things is thankfully going well so far. Pre-training before Christmas was filled with mud (and lots of it, obviously underestimated this mild December), my first blister and the discovery of my new running jam – ‘Be Prepared’ from The Lion King, thankyou Scar. My milage was increasing nicely so I thought I’d treat myself to a week off over Christmas stuffing my face with roast potatoes and Ferrero Rocher. Tuesday marked the start of my 17 week training program and I’ve never found a twenty minute run more excruciating, it was like wading through melted Quality Street. I now realise the importance of good nutrition as well as good running kit. Whilst everyone else was making the most of the sales, I was shopping for running tights and sweat-wicking socks at half price.
Speaking of money, fundraising will now be in full force! (Should have started earlier, should have started earlier. Que panic attack). I apologise in advance if by April you’re wanting to stuff one of my running socks in my mouth, but I can promise it’s for a wonderful charity and I’ll more than be paying for it in blood, sweat and tears… literally. I’ll be selling art work of my own in the hope of raising some extra pennies, so if you have any requests do throw them my way and I’ll see what I can do!
Thankyou for all of your support and donations so far! And if you’ve listened to me for at least one sentence, I salute you. For now, I hope you enjoyed a wonderful Christmas and have a happy 2016 surrounded by loved ones and spending it doing what you love, I sure as hell plan to! Please have a drink for me tonight as I will be in the land of nod with a snoring dog at my side. Today’s running song: ‘Middle of the Bed’ Lucy Rose.
P.s What’s new year without a good old Facebook quiz, so on board with this: